16th July 2015
San Diego, USA
Remember that part in the film Armageddon (the end-of-the-world asteroid film with Bruce Willis) -- where Brucie boy is sitting on the asteroid, alone, with the nuke switch in his hand, and he detonates the bomb and splits the asteroid just before it reaches the point of no return?
If he waited around any longer, it would have been too late. The course would have been set, and nothing anyone could do or say would save the Earth from being smashed to smithereens.
Interactions with hot girls is just like that.
At the beginning, it's easy to set an attractive, sexual, masculine frame and get her to accept it. However, if you wait around too long and fail to set the right frame, you eventually hit the "point of no return".
When you hit this point, the game is up.
Nothing you can do or say will save you from being friend-zoned.
Your fate is sealed.
You're a harmless "nice guy", and you've lost the girl.
This is why frame control is an essential skill for every serious seducer.
You need to be sophisticated enough to see the frame -- and I mean see clearly, as clearly as a Premier League footballer can see a fluorescent yellow ball -- so that you can make the necessary adjustments, and make sure the right frame is being set early on.
(The frame is to the seducer what the ball is to the footballer.)
If you do this early in the interaction, everything else -- the first kiss, bringing her back to your place, getting her horny, taking off her clothes, etc. -- is much, much, much, much, much, much easier.
Sometimes, it's even effortless.
Leave it too late though, and by the time you know what's going on, she'll already put you in the "friend" box and she's made a conscious decision to NEVER have sex with you.
This is my golden advice for you today.
Do what you want with it.
If I were you though, I'd invest in learning how to understand and control different frames.
There are tonnes of great psychology books out there.
They won't help you though, because they were written by academics.
You need an experienced seducer to show you the ropes -- someone who lives and breathes this stuff, and uses it on a daily basis.
Jon Matrix is the best man for this. That's why I drafted him in for our next webinar. (He did a few others with us last year, and both times my inbox was stuffed full of emails from guys who were blown away.)
Jon's frame control webinar masterclass is in two weeks' time, at 8 PM UK time on Monday 27th of July. It will cost you just $1 to come along and see if what he's teaching is the missing piece of the puzzle your dating life needs.
When you finish up after two hours, you'll know how to make holding solid frames and earning admiration from the men and women you speak to second nature. It'll be one less problem to worry about.
Register for Jon Matrix's frame control masterclass here:
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